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2021 New Year

Happy New Year!

updated on January 20, 2021January 1, 2021Leave a Comment on Happy New Year!

I would like to wish you a very wonderful, very amazing, very blessed 2021.  Let’s go forward in peace, joy, and health. Claiming it for you!

New Year, New Opportunities
2021 faith family motivation New Year

New Year, New Opportunities

updated on February 5, 2021January 1, 2021Leave a Comment on New Year, New Opportunities

Hello everyone!  Happy 2021!  Wow, can you believe I just typed that?  Two thousand twenty-one.  It is the year 2021.  I remember being a child and thinking how far away the year 2000 was from my youth.  Now, it’s 2021 and honeys…I am STILL young ๐Ÿ˜!  This first post of the new year comes with …

2019 New Year travel vacation

Happy New Year!!!

updated on January 20, 2021January 7, 2019Leave a Comment on Happy New Year!!!

Happy New Year, everyone! I thoroughly enjoyed my break from all things blog and social media the first week in 2019. It was just great to be able to spend time with family and enjoy the moment. For their โ€œbigโ€ Christmas gift, S. and I surprised the kids with a trip to Florida starting the …

New Year

Thank you for an amazing 2018!

updated on January 20, 2021December 30, 2018Leave a Comment on Thank you for an amazing 2018!

This year has been amazing.  We have walked through some great adventures, lived through some painful truths, celebrated spectacular blessings, and experienced God’s love in every aspect of our lives.  I am so very thankful that you have taken that journey with us. We are about to shut things down for the remainder of the …

  • I so love our church family! Our Honeybee received birthday treats from church friends who have become family. Such an amazing treat. #sweetdtreats #homebakedgoods #birthdaytreats #birthdaysweets #ricekrispytreats #birthdaycakes #unicorn #unicorns #unicornlover #birthdays #treatboxes #birthdaygirl๐ŸŽ€ #smallbusiness #localbusiness #supportlocalbusiness #moistcupcakes #yummytreats #myfriendsareawesome #entrepreneurlife
  • ๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น, ๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜, ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ, ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ, ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜, ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฎ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐Ÿณ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†!!!!! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ๐Ÿฐ ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—–๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฎ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐Ÿญ. ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฌ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ. Iโ€™ve seen these beautiful setups throughout the streets of my city for a while now and I always think how adorable they are. With the pandemic, I wanted my loved ones to experience all the hype of their birthday without the danger of the crowds. SO...I contacted our local @cardmyyard franchise. They were so easy to work with and so very friendly. They not only did a fantastic job under cover of night, but they did it twice. Yesterday was my husbandโ€™s birthday! For some reason I couldnโ€™t post on IG yesterday so Iโ€™ll make sure to follow up with his shout out later as I still want him to have his shine too. If you are in the 540, 571, or 703 area code and want the local family we used, just send me a DM! I highly recommend! ๐Ÿฎ. ๐—ญ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ญ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—บ. Have a family and friends birthday party via Zoom. I hosted one for my husband yesterday and it was great especially for friends he hasnโ€™t seen since the pandemic and some since high school!!! He was as so happy to see them. Iโ€™m having a mini one with my mom so she can see her oldest granddaughter online. She hasnโ€™t seen her in person in a year so you know sheโ€™s ready! Free account gives you 30 minutes and thatโ€™s really all you need for singing happy birthday and opening gifts with cake. ๐Ÿฏ. ๐—–๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฏ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด! One thing about this pandemic is the convenience of no contact is everywhere. Take advantage. Arrange curbside pickup for the balloons๐ŸŽˆ, cake ๐ŸŽ‚, flowers ๐Ÿ’, and ๐ŸŽ. Itโ€™s safe and contactless! Shoot, you can ever do a birthday meal! ๐Ÿฐ. ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ! My dad and siblings really wanted to be able to say happy birthday on zoom to my husband yesterday but schedules are hard sometimes. No worries! My brother recorded a really nice birthday greeting for S. and we were able to play it for him...safely with no contact. Love it!
  • ๐—ข๐—ต ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€!!! ๐—œ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—œ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜†๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - You all do know that confirming the absence of schedule conflicts isnโ€™t control, right? And asking if a spouse minds isnโ€™t asking permission? - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Any other love bugs and spouses have thoughts? What about my single loves? Would you consider a check in to see if your significant other minds an after work happy hour stop asking permission? ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฒ. ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - #tuesdaytruth #tuesdaythoughts #relationships #marriage #spouse #marriageworks #marriagematters #marriage365 #healthymarriage #healthyrelationships #coupleconversations #blogger #bloglife #blackmomblogger #browngirlbloggers #marriedwithchildren #momsofinstagram #blackandmarried #blackandmarriedwithkids #relationshiprules #openconversation #fiercemarriage
  • ๐—๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Itโ€™s been a day. Deadlines. Projects. Saving the day. And itโ€™s still going. I could have done better. I could have prepped some of this. But I didnโ€™t and itโ€™s kicking my butt on this end. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Lessons learned and applied. If you are having a chaotic, stress-filled, frustrating day...breathe. Itโ€™s okay. You have this. Hereโ€™s what has been helping me. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ. One task, one second, one minute, one hour, one day. Check off that task list one item at a time. Today, donโ€™t focus on the big picture. It will overwhelm you. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น. I have this thing about lists. I really love lists and I like to check or cross off things as they are done. Itโ€™s satisfying to me to see a list that has been completely crossed through. I actually feel accomplished. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ๐——๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ. Oh, I wish I could do it all. But, ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น๐—น ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐˜†, I can drop the ball. Itโ€™s okay to delegate some tasks. Itโ€™s okay to ask for help. I have two arms. I cannot feed the baby, answer an email, and cook dinner at the same time...well, I can but it isnโ€™t pretty or peaceful. I have no problem tagging my partner in, and neither should you. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ๐—™๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ? I hope so. You are an awesome superhero and you have this. Seriously! Now...letโ€™s see if I can get this marriage post released today. #motivation #mondaymotivation #youhavethis #yougotthis #justkeepswimming #iencourage #collaborationovercompetition #yourcheerleader #wegonmakeit #blogger #momblogger #mombloggersofig #browngirlbloggers #melaninmommy #momoffive #infantmom #preschoolmom #momofteen #gradeschoolmom
  • ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Letting the kids decorate cookies tonight! They are super excited because I promised they could have hot chocolate to accompany. I love being a mom! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - #fridayfunday #fridayfun #familytime #familyfun #qualitytime #icingcookies #decoratingcookies #family #familyfirst #familylove #familyโค๏ธ
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