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Hits and Misses

on 12/22/201712/22/2017Leave a Comment on Hits and Misses

In my professional career, I’ve had some hits and I’ve had some misses. Today, I got hit with a miss. Something careless that I should have caught, something that 17 years in this business should have prevented from happening. That being said, once bought to my attention, I didn’t defer. I didn’t excuse. I took …

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Weekend Recap: Visiting Umi

on 04/11/201704/11/2017Leave a Comment on Weekend Recap: Visiting Umi

 Hi everyone! It’s been a pretty awesome weekend. The kids and I woke up very early to drive to the Maryland House rest stop and meet the kids’ grandmother aka Umi there because she had some Easter goodies she wanted to give them. My mom lives about 5.5. hours away and works crazy hours as …

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Middle School ?!

on 04/04/201704/04/2017Leave a Comment on Middle School ?!

Okay, everyone. Keep me calm! Calm. ME. DOWN!!! Today, my baby. My firstborn son. My heartstring. Ya’ll! My baby is going to middle school orientation! What?! Seriously! Where the HECK did that come from?! Who gave time permission to fly like that? I was JUST carrying him in my womb yesterday and today, he’s going …

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Lunch with the (former) Social Worker

on 03/10/201703/10/2017Leave a Comment on Lunch with the (former) Social Worker

Hi everyone.  Today has been a very special day.  Today, I was able to sit down with the woman who was instrumental in creating a forever family for my baby girl H.  Her former social worker and I were able to meet for lunch and catch up on life since we’ve last chatted.  H.’s social …

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Happy Valentine’s Day

on 02/14/201702/14/2017Leave a Comment on Happy Valentine’s Day

Hi everyone.  Just a quick message to wish you and yours a very Happy Valentine’s Day.  Here’s hoping you feel beautiful and amazingly special on this day and ALL days this year.  Love all of you! -K

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  • August is rapidly approaching and I’m excited. There are some pretty cool things happening in August and I can’t wait to share them with you. Keep watching.
  • 𝗜 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗮 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗽𝗹𝗲 🤦🏾‍♀️ - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - We were discussing #COVID and the #pandemic and planning in case, God forbid, something should happen to one or both parents. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Life insurance, making sure the spouses know account information, final wishes, minor guardianship…and that’s when it happened. 👀 Spouse 1 mentioned the children would stay with that spouse’s parents should they both pass suddenly. Spouse 2 literally laughed out loud and declared it not so. Spouse 1 asked why and Spouse 2 answered honestly—brutally honestly. And it was on like popcorn 🍿. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - One thing this pandemic has reminded is tomorrow is never promised. And if you aren’t on the same page regarding life decisions, some things could really be in turmoil. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 𝗛𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗽𝗼𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗰𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹𝘀, 𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝗳 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗼𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀, 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲, 𝗲𝘁𝗰.?
  • My canvases arrived from @canvaspeople!!! I’m going to re order J’s as I realized after I ordered his that I preferred another pic. Still I loved the way it turned out. Not an ad, just an observation! I can’t wait to show you how all this comes together! #canvaslover #blackandwhiitephotos #decorlife #momoffive #largefamilymom #melaninmom #momofgirls #momofboys #preschoolmom #toddlermom #infantmom #elementaryschoolmom #momofteen #canvaspeople
  • Can I let you guys in on a little secret? Sometimes my anxiety and depression really goes into overdrive. No matter what I do or what I try, I can feel pretty low. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - It’s crazy because I know I’m blessed and that I shouldn’t be crying at the drop of a dime or sitting in the car in silence. But that’s my life sometimes. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - That doesn’t take away that my God is still a healer. It just means sometimes I have trouble seeing His light. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - It’s why I’m glad places like my stylist exist. Every single time I visit the shop, I am surrounded by women who pour into me and allow me to pour into them. The encouragement is real. The laughter. The tears. …someone once told me that for some women the salon chair is therapy. I’m no judge of that, but I can say that I am eternally grateful for @hairbynaayo and the hands at @a_creativeplace. Not an ad. A moment of gratitude for lifting a sister’s spirits when she couldn’t do it on her own. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -- -- 𝗦𝗼, 𝗜 𝗮𝘀𝗸 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆-- 𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝗸𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆? #mentalhealth #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthawareness #depressionisreal #anxiety #anxietyawareness #blessed #mentaltransparency #sisterhood #encouragingwomen #melaninme #blogger #dmvblogger
  • This little lady had a day. She went for a well-visit and received shots. It’s so rare that it’s just she and I. After shots, I certainly had to take advantage of the just us time and help her feel better. A small cup of rainbow sherbet with sprinkles later and she was fine. I appreciate the opportunities to spend this time with her. She’s about to be a kindergartner in her own right next year. Time to enjoy these moments while I can.
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